Monday, October 17, 2005

Special Attention Required for Women and Children

Extremely Important Information About Child Adoption

This is for the attention of everyone, please spread the message! It is the most grave issue of the hour... children from the disaster hit areas are going MISSING. Due to the chaos and confusion, it is hard to keep track of children whose families are either missing or dead. Traffickers are taking full advantage of this situation.

Things to do and know:
  • Adoption has been BANNED by the goverment for the time being so anyone who is doing so is doing it ILLEGALLY
  • No individuals can OFFER children brought in from those areas up for adoption
  • No one can re-locate the children from their areas without official permission from the goverment
  • The goverment is giving the names of ORGANISATIONS in the media who have been asked to supervise and take care of the children for the time being - so if you don't know, CHECK with any TV channel, newspaper etc
  • If you are recieving any messages from individuals saying that they have kids up for adoption, please inform the authorities
  • Please spread some instructions for those who are volunteering in the affected areas. Tell them to keep a count and track of children who are unaccompanied. Also tell them to educate children not to leave their area with anyone but officials or their family
Please pass this message around...

Women and Children - Worst Victims

As efforts are being made to coordinate and target the otherwise haphazard and disarrayed relief operation for optimal and equitable benefits to all affected by the deadly earthquake that shook six district of NWFP and almost all of Azad Kashmir, there is an urgent need to address the specific issues of women and children who were the worst hit in the catastrophe.

Although the gender analysis of the impact of the disaster will take time, there clearly are more women and children who were killed in the earthquake. Similarly, their number among the injured appears very high. One obvious explanation for greater loss among women and children is perhaps the gender role ideology, which places women in domestic roles. Most of the women were at home at the time of the earthquake, while children were in schools. Due to the concept of purdah and segregation, women are often reluctant to rush out of their homes, increasing their vulnerability. Being the worst victims, women and children will be the most vulnerable in the post-disaster period with regard to their very survival. Since their mobility is restricted amid a value system that confines them to the private sphere, they may not be able to benefit from the rescue and relief operation currently underway. It is therefore unsurprising to see long queues of men receiving relief goods in areas, particularly in NWFP, where traditions and religion determine the conduct of women.

Even in this time of crisis, women are hardly seen out in public. They are still confined in inaccessible clusters on mountain terraces hidden from the eyes of relief operations, waiting for food, medical care, water, and shelter. Similarly, a large number of children may have been rendered family-less in the calamity, who are now at risk of exploitation. There already are reports that people are looking for such children for adoptions. However, as noble as the cause may be, there will certainly be no record of such adoption, and no guarantee that these children do not end up as domestic workers. Such chaos also provides an ideal environment for child traffickers, who are able to act will amid an absent state.

It is against this backdrop that special focus is needed to address the specific issue of women and children in order to save them from further agony. The relief operators must ensure that their hard work is benefiting women and children. A gender sensitive approach to the relief operation is what is needed. The UN agencies as well as the government can jointly issue guidelines to relief operators on the gender aspects of their work to make sure women do not stay out of the loop. Similarly, the law enforcement agencies should make certain that the orphaned children are not whisked away by rings of exploiters, although it will be a difficult task to put in place. Child protection systems amid massive chaos have to be organized and monitored. Perhaps with the involvement of the community, localized shelters for orphaned children can be established. Such measures will only help reduce the long-term adverse effects of the disaster and will alleviate the miseries and trauma of its worst victims.

Liaqat Ali

Child Adoption - URGENT INFORMATION

Please spread the news.

The Pakistan Government has stated that no children will be adopted and that it is their responsibility to take care of the orphans and they WILL do so. Spoke to a PIMS volunteer early this morning in Islamabad who said they are currently unsure of the status.

She has just sent an SMS saying that UNICEF has confirmed that no children are to be adopted.

13 Comments:

  • I think for once the government is right and prompt enough to say that there will be no adoption, atleast for the first six months.

    Hope that they keep their word and take good care of the poor children.

    By Anonymous, at 12:02 PM  

  • I dont think govt. is capable of taking care of children, though i agree it is the task of the govt.

    By Tamed Cynic, at 4:41 PM  

  • I know it is too much too take care of the children. Remember when there was no earthquake, many of these kids were poor. So to go from poor to worse, the govt can't handle it.

    By Anonymous, at 9:28 PM  

  • I think Govt is right not to give away the children due to their future, as there is every possibility that they will be misused, the point is has anyone ever gave a thought to those who really need a child i mean the ones who have lost their son or daughter they really deserve it, so some measures should be taken in order to facilitate those.

    By Junaid, at 7:55 AM  

  • At times like these, child trafficking and adoption for abusive purposes becomes rampant. Already there are (unconfirmed) reports that children have started to go missing. The government is doing the right thing in banning all adoption until things have settled down and the necessary processes and procedures can be implemented to ensure that children are not handed over to every tom, dick and harry who offers to take them.

    By Maleeha, at 1:31 PM  

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    By Anonymous, at 4:45 PM  

  • the government is totaly right on putting a ban on adoption, i fully agree in absence of a proper screening procedure, these children will land in wrong hands, further more once a databse of survivors is put up, there is a possiblity of finding them homes in their relatives, right now there is so much chaos, hats off to the government for taking wise decision.

    By Anonymous, at 2:37 AM  

  • i think pakistan goverment got no funds for take care of the children, we r help the children like schooling eg

    By Anonymous, at 9:47 PM  

  • I think adoption of poor victims Childs, without a proper legal way is as equally harmfull as in hands of those government employees, who will be assumed to take care of them under government Umbrella. Avery body in Pakistan knows very well about the honesty of the burocrates. So both the things are extremes. It is better to let the Childs adopted but with great care and references of noble citizens having un-disputed personalities, and with full legal proceedings.

    By Akhtar Ali Rajput, at 2:12 AM  

  • I think it is ludicrous that children should NOT be adopted out but left to die of cold. I am from Australia and would happily adopt a child/children (even a family of children) with my husband and take them on as members of our family. They would be well cared for and given a good LIFE. If it was necessary for us to have their photos posted and a DNA sample taken so that they could go back to parents if they should turn out to be alive, that would be okay and surely their parents would be glad that they had been well cared for. I am disgusted by the fact that governments do not really look after the children but put them in danger by institutionalising them such that perverts can have the opportunity to abuse them - and this happens in ALL countries - including AUSTRALIA. We would welcome checks to make sure any children were coming to a safe house with us. This is most certainly possible. We are a family with three girls; 9, 2 and nearly 1, I am a well-educated housewife and my husband is a doctor. Shame on governments for not truly caring for children - because many of them will die from the cold or be abused in institutions.

    By Anonymous, at 11:41 AM  

  • I too am shocked and horrified to hear that these children cannot be adopted....they stand a better chance of a better quality of life then they could ever get left to the government of Pakistan. I have 3 children and would happily take on another child and there is no doubt that the child would be raised like my very own...Mother in London

    By Anonymous, at 11:46 AM  

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    By Anonymous, at 2:06 AM  

  • Hey... theres NO date Anywhere on this page.. so I was wondering HOw old exactly this site is.

    Im a doctor in Karachi I want to go up there and help.. guidance will be MUCH appreciated..
    Are the numbers on this site still valid?
    Will check back everyday , please answer me.

    Dr. Z

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